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Bereavement Support Payment explained

Bereavement Support Payment is a state benefit for someone whose husband, wife or civil partner has died, and in some cases an unmarried partner with children. You must be under State Pension age. It pays a first payment then monthly payments for up to 18 months, with a higher rate for parents. Claim within three months to get the full amount. Check GOV.UK for rates.

Who can claim

You can usually claim if your husband, wife or civil partner died and you were under State Pension age at the time. Your partner needs to have paid National Insurance contributions for a minimum period, or have died because of an accident at work or a disease caused by work.

Unmarried partners who lived together can also claim if they have children and were entitled to Child Benefit. Unmarried partners without children are not eligible.

The benefit applies to deaths on or after April 2017. People whose partner died before then may have claimed the older Widowed Parent's Allowance or Bereavement Allowance instead. You cannot claim if you were divorced from the person when they died.

  • Married couples and civil partners
  • Cohabiting partners with dependent children
  • Under State Pension age at the time of death
  • Partner met the National Insurance conditions

How it is paid

The payment comes in two parts: a larger first payment, then monthly payments for up to 18 months. Parents, and people who were pregnant when their partner died, get a higher rate.

The amounts are set by the government and can change, so check GOV.UK for the current figures before you plan around them.

If you get other benefits, GOV.UK explains how the two fit together, so check before you budget. People on certain means-tested benefits may also get help with funeral costs through a Funeral Expenses Payment.

Why claiming quickly matters

If you claim within three months of the death, you get the full amount. You can still claim up to 21 months after, but you will lose some of the monthly payments. Grief makes paperwork hard, so ask a friend or relative to help start the claim.

You can claim by phone or by post, and the Tell Us Once service can let several government departments know about the death in one go.

How it fits with life insurance

Bereavement Support Payment helps in the first months after a loss. It is not designed to replace a partner's income for years or to clear a mortgage. Life insurance or family income benefit can do that.

Cohabiting couples without children receive nothing from this benefit, which makes private cover more important for them.

Bereavement Support Payment also stops after 18 months, while a mortgage, childcare and household bills can run for many years. A lump sum or family income benefit can carry your family through that longer stretch and give them time to adjust.

How Hi Tomorrow helps families plan

We help you work out what your family would have from the state, from work and from any existing policies, then match life cover to the gap. If your partner has died, we can also help with a claim on a policy we arranged, and point you to the right places for state support.

Questions people ask us

Who is eligible for Bereavement Support Payment?

You may be eligible if your husband, wife or civil partner died, you were under State Pension age, and your partner met the National Insurance conditions or died from a work accident or work-related disease. Cohabiting partners can claim if they have dependent children. Check GOV.UK for full details.

How long does Bereavement Support Payment last?

It is paid as a first payment followed by monthly payments for up to 18 months. Claiming within three months of the death means you receive the full amount. Claiming later, up to 21 months after the death, means you get fewer monthly payments.

Can unmarried partners get Bereavement Support Payment?

Only if they have children. Cohabiting partners who were entitled to Child Benefit for a child can claim. Unmarried partners without children cannot. This is one reason life insurance matters for cohabiting couples, who also have no automatic right to inherit.

Does Bereavement Support Payment affect life insurance?

No. A life insurance payout is separate from state benefits, and receiving one does not stop you claiming the other. Bereavement Support Payment is a short-term help, while life insurance can give longer-term support to clear debts or replace income.

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